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Free classes on a variety of sexual topics, with class support sections for each topic and instructor Q&A.
The contents of this class are very sexually explicit and intended for adults only!

Anal Play
Instructors
Jeff & Kris Booth
(text in black written by Jeff,
text in blue written by Kris)



Some people are very uncomfortable with the notion of stimulating the anus, but it is rich in nerve endings and can provide quite a bit of pleasure. With a little bit of information, anal play it can be a source of some wonderful erotic experiences.


10 Basic Guidelines

There are a few basic things to keep in mind with anal play:

1. Always use lube. This will make the experience much more pleasant.
2. Go slow. Take your time when with your partner to get them completely relaxed.
3. Only use sex toys anally that are flanged at the base. This prevents them from disappearing from site. The one exception is anal beads, which are connected by a strong cord. Other items, especially those attached only by a wire, such as the wire leading to a battery pack, should never be inserted anally. There is a good chance the wire will break when you tug on it.
4. If you use a toy longer than 4", make sure it is flexible. The anal canal is curved, and you want a toy that will curve with it.
5. Know the anatomy. It is a good idea to understand a little of the anatomical structure of the anus before you insert something into it. The first three inches or so tilts toward the front of your body, so inserting things at a slight angle in this direction will ease their entry. It then curves towards the back for a few inches. Keep these curves in mind when inserting anything anally.
6. Never go from anal use of a toy to vaginal use. Bacteria found naturally in the anus should not move into new digs in the vagina. If you want to use a toy anally and then use it vaginally, put a condom on it and slip the condom off before vaginal penetration.
7. Never go from anal intercourse to vaginal intercourse without washing thoroughly first. For the same reason as number 6, obviously. The alternative is the same; remove the condom or replace it before vaginal entry.
8. Most people, including men, will enjoy some type of anal play. Once you get past people's inhibitions and men's stupid notion that anal stimulation makes them gay, it can be quite a stimulating experience. Not everyone wants something large, though. For some, the Silicone Anal probe or a single finger may be just enough. Others might want a little more stimulation, such as more fingers or a larger toy with vibration.
9. Never use an anal cream that desensitizes. Not only will this reduce enjoyment, it could lead to the receptive partner being hurt without realizing it. Their cues of how comfortable they are and how relaxed as you penetrate them are critical, and they can not give you accurate feedback if they are numb.
10. Unprotected anal intercourse is not a safe sex practice. If you are in a situation where you could be at risk, always wear a condom.

Using Anal Toys

Dildos for Anal Use
Butt Plugs Anal Probe    Ribbed Probe  Probes with Handles   Anal Beads
 Vibrators for Anal Use
Vibrating Butt PlugsAnal Screw
 
 
 

Dildos for Anal Use
 

Butt Plugs

A butt plug is different from a dildo in that it is meant to be inserted and left there, providing a feeling of fullness.

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Anal Probes

Anal probes are about the size of a finger tip or a little fatter at the end and get just a little wider towards the base.

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Ribbed Probes

Ribbed probes have rounded shapes, offering a slightly different sensation. They are also known as rippled plugs.

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Probes with Handles

Adding a handle to an anal probe gives you a little more control.

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Anal Beads

Anal beads are a series of beads strung together that are inserted into the anus and then slowly pulled out.

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Vibrators for Anal Use
 

Vibrating Butt Plugs

If you are interested in a little anal play, these might be just the toys to try. Kris became very enthusiastic after a lover introduced her to them. There are a number of variations available, and she especially likes the Red Hot Version.

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The Anal Screw

To me this looked a little bit much at first. I did not think Kris would like it, but she picked it out. It is a toy for use when you want to spend some time slowly making someone lose their mind. If you have tried anal play and like it, this is a great toy. The spiral design is very stimulating.

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