Anal Play
Instructors
Jeff & Kris Booth
(text in black written by Jeff,
text in blue written by Kris)
Some people are very uncomfortable with the notion of stimulating the anus, but it is rich in nerve endings and can provide quite a bit of pleasure. With a little bit of information, anal play it can be a source of some wonderful erotic experiences.
10 Basic Guidelines
There are a few basic things to keep in mind with anal play:
1. Always use lube. This will make the experience
much more pleasant.
2. Go slow. Take your time when with your partner
to get them completely relaxed.
3. Only use sex toys anally that are flanged
at the base. This prevents them from disappearing from site. The one
exception is anal beads, which are connected by a strong cord. Other items,
especially those attached only by a wire, such as the wire leading to a
battery pack, should never be inserted anally. There is a good chance the
wire will break when you tug on it.
4. If you use a toy longer than 4", make sure it is
flexible. The anal canal is curved, and you want a toy that will curve
with it.
5. Know the anatomy. It is a good idea to understand
a little of the anatomical structure of the anus before you insert something
into it. The first three inches or so tilts toward the front of your body,
so inserting things at a slight angle in this direction will ease their
entry. It then curves towards the back for a few inches. Keep these curves
in mind when inserting anything anally.
6. Never go from anal use of a toy to vaginal use.
Bacteria found naturally in the anus should not move into new digs in the
vagina. If you want to use a toy anally and then use it vaginally, put
a condom on it and slip the condom off before vaginal penetration.
7. Never go from anal intercourse to vaginal
intercourse without washing thoroughly first. For the same reason as
number 6, obviously. The alternative is the same; remove the condom or
replace it before vaginal entry.
8. Most people, including men, will enjoy some type
of anal play. Once you get past people's inhibitions and men's stupid
notion that anal stimulation makes them gay, it can be quite a stimulating
experience. Not everyone wants something large, though. For some, the Silicone
Anal probe or a single finger may be just enough. Others might want a little
more stimulation, such as more fingers or a larger toy with vibration.
9. Never use an anal cream that desensitizes.
Not only will this reduce enjoyment, it could lead to the receptive partner
being hurt without realizing it. Their cues of how comfortable they are
and how relaxed as you penetrate them are critical, and they can not give
you accurate feedback if they are numb.
10. Unprotected anal intercourse is not a safe
sex practice. If you are in a situation where you could be at risk,
always wear a condom.
Using Anal Toys
Dildos for Anal Use
Butt Plugs
Anal Probe Ribbed
Probe Probes with Handles Anal
Beads
Vibrators
for Anal Use
Vibrating Butt PlugsAnal
Screw
A butt plug is different from a dildo in that it is meant to be inserted and left there, providing a feeling of fullness.
Anal probes are about the size of a finger tip or a little fatter at the end and get just a little wider towards the base.
Ribbed probes have rounded shapes, offering a slightly different sensation. They are also known as rippled plugs.
Adding a handle to an anal probe gives you a little more control.
Anal beads are a series of beads strung together that are inserted into the anus and then slowly pulled out.
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Product
Information
If you are interested in a little anal play, these might be just the toys to try. Kris became very enthusiastic after a lover introduced her to them. There are a number of variations available, and she especially likes the Red Hot Version.
To me this looked a little bit much at first. I did not think Kris would like it, but she picked it out. It is a toy for use when you want to spend some time slowly making someone lose their mind. If you have tried anal play and like it, this is a great toy. The spiral design is very stimulating.
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